Do as we say not as we do.....

Do you remember when you were very young and you learned via your parents, teachers, books and television how you were supposed to behave in the world? It was laid out for you in black and white. 

Don't tell lies. 
Be kind to others. 
Share. 
Don't fight. 
It's wrong to bully people. 
Be gentle to animals. 
It's not whether you win or lose it's how you play the game.
Being different is great!
Family and friends are there to help you.
It's okay to be sad or scared and crying isn't shameful. 
Having fun and laughing is important.
And so on....


When you're a child you're encouraged (on the whole) to giggle, be creative without judgement, play, play, play, make friends, have adventures, be respectful to your elders, have a sense of wonder and whimsy....


Why is it that once you become 'an adult' this has to change? Why after a certain age are we suddenly allowed to berate, gossip, bully, scheme, work without joy, never play with toys, keep sadness inside, pretend you're not frightened, never burden family or friends with your troubles, play to win, laugh at others and not with others...and so on...


Why are there special programs for kids on television to teach them basic manners and lessons about 'doing the right thing' but once these same children get older these lessons no longer apply? Then what was the point? Surely what's important to learn as a child is still important as an adult?


What do you think? Do you think us older folk could use a refresher course on life? We want to preserve the innate innocence and goodness of children and give ourselves up as lost causes...I don't think we are....